America dating men
Best-selling Brit author Lindsey Kelk has lived in New York for five years – during which time she's dated a cowboy, a karaoke host and an actual spy. She also originally hails from Doncaster, so she knows as much as any sane woman needs to about getting off with British guys. I love knowing where I stand." "I think there is a confidence with being sexy here in the US that many women are afraid to show elsewhere.American women will dress sexy, flirt, and be assertive when they like a guy. And yep, in America that means a VERY different thing? You can't ever bring him home on a weekend in case your nan serves Spotted Dick at Sunday lunch. You will be able to drink him under the table, always and forever. Prepare for so many arguments about what constitutes 'football'.
Even when you're absolutely raging and want to tear him apart with your bare hands, he will tell you you're adorable. He will take absolutely everything you say literally.
My dilemma was that I could never rationally understand why dating is so confusing and complicated in America.
Lots of explanations are given by lots of people, but none of them truly explain the whole story.
Southern European cultures have pretty tough and “masculine” women; the stereotypical traditional Italian wife, for example, is very “tough” and “ball-busting” as demonstrated by her ability to run the house hold and even control her tough Italian husband. I wanted to put American dating under the microscope and study it like a scientist who studies microorganisms in his science lab.
The explanation that American women are “masculine” was way too simplistic and not good enough. On my recent trip to New York, I had some free time and decided to use it go out to bars and meet women. So, I forced myself to forget everything that I I knew about American women and dating in order to learn and relearn everything from the ground up.