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For those unfamiliar with gyms, this is not acceptable behavior. Let's say the fit guys can tell she used to be fat.That may turn out to be a huge turn on to see the amount of dedication someone has to better themselves.
I appreciate that, especially if it's just a nice compliment that doesn't come with a "but" after. Being a fat dude doesn't mean you're not an active dude. And we often don't get that chance because the awesome rainbow cardigan at H&M is a European extra-large, which is like an American extra-small. "Maybe you have thyroid problems." Could be, but those are rare and I've had my thyroid checked.OP maybe they are attracted to you BECAUSE you're you and because of your journey. It makes me cry a little on the inside when I see weight loss pics and perfectly tight abdominal skin.Wear your tiger stripes as a badge of honor to show what you've overcome. I sometimes feel like I've won the battle (weight loss/fitness) but lost the war (wearing a bikini) because of my loose tummy skin.I have guys who are seriously jacked interested in me and it terrify's me! I unfortunately have quite bad stretch marks on my stomach and a small amount of sagging around my belly button but have luckily bounced backed quite well.I know I have some body dysmorphia and feel extremely uncomfortable about what men ( especially fit men) think about dating a girl who a) used to be fat and b) who's body is still not fantastic. Do you find a lot of women are intimidated by your body?