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I was in an internet caf in Thailand last year, trying to work out which continent I should fly to next, when my attention was entirely absorbed by an attractive Thai girl who sat down next to me and logged in.She gave me one of those Thai smiles that could mean anything at all and then concentrated on her correspondence.I was beginning to wonder if Thailand had its merits after all and couldnt help stealing repeated glances at her.She was totally absorbed in her online conversations with four messenger windows going at once, however, and in each of them I could see the photo of a Western guy. I looked at her again and realized she was wearing too much makeup and revealing clothes for the average Thai girl.Thailand, like Brazil or the Philippines, is full of Western guys trying their luck with women half their age.With terrible dress sense that betrays the serious lack of a womans touch, it can be pitiful to watch them trying to mend their hearts under flashing neon signs, sharing a common vocabulary of maybe 500 words with the women they meet. Along with worrying about balding, beer guts and prostate cancer, many American men suffer the flip side of the national individualistic character — they end up feeling quite alone.
American women these days dress like men, talk like men and call you a chauvinist if you ask them to make you a cup of coffee.I was somehow reminded of Miss World contestants talking about world peace.Then of course my girlfriend walked in and point blank refused to believe it was all part of my journalistic research So were these beautiful girls really looking for true love or were they just in it for the money?Western women have been campaigning for equality for so long that happiness went out of the picture long ago. I initially thought this was a bit over the top until I learned that even complimenting a female co-worker can be considered grounds for sexual harassment.Have feminism and political correctness taken all the fun out of American love? But theres also the fact that, for many, exotic is erotic and theres nothing like a foreign accent or complexion to hide the personality faults that stop domestic relationships getting off the ground.