Internet dating rejection email
Limiting the time of the first date is a safety precaution: if you end up on a nightmare of a date you’ve already established your “out”.
If on the other hand the date is going excellent, suggest to your date that you extend it.
I made this mistake early on and now understand why a few girls, after several emails, would ask direct questions like “Is there anything else you would like me to answer? There are times where you will feel like you are communicating with a “great catch” only to realize what a mistake that was 60 seconds into the first date.
It is important to meet early on so less time is spent talking to the wrong person and more time is spent trying to find the right one. The first date should be planned not long after communication has begun.
It’s not as if you hoping to “chat” with someone and end it there.
You want to talk with them and if things go well meet them.
After all, contacting someone is just a pre-cursor to the first date.
In contrast, many times the dates ended with coffee or lunch.
This approach is a cousin to the having-your-friend-call-you-and-faking-an-emergency act that some people think is so slick.
On my first date with my wife, I schedule a one hour date at a diner.
After the hour was over, I explained that I only extend the good dates and since ours was a great date asked if she would be up for miniature golf (she was).