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When this happens, the tendency is to cling onto the relationship for fear of losing it.
You may text them more or request to spend more time together.
"And if your partner does break it off, you'll be setting yourself up to walk away from the relationship as a whole person, not a broken shell of yourself." You shouldn't be initiating everything as your relationship goes on.
So if your partner's interest in the relationship isn't strong enough to take it to the next level, they will take less of an initiative, be less affectionate, and show less physical closeness, Backe says.
But if your partner can't be their genuine self around you by three months, Backe says they may have deeper emotional issues that may need to be worked on.
"Use your heart, your head, your gut, but be realistic about your expectations," he says. Now that three months have passed, it is starting to get real." If your partner starts making more plans with friends and isn't making the effort to include you, Morgenstern says, that's an early sign your relationship may not last.
Because as amazing as those new love feels are, those first 90 days can determine whether or not your new relationship is the real thing or has an expiration date.
Danielle Forshee tells Bustle, that's not a great sign.
"Plan a trip with friends for the weekend and have an amazing time reconnecting with your inner circle.
Coming from a place of self love and inner confidence will save your relationship," Morgenstern says.
But if you're going through something at work or with your family, they should be there to talk and listen to you.
"This kind of thing is what takes your relationship to the next level," she says.